The Question:

Morgan & Ella,

Hi! My best friend’s cousin is in my year,and I’ve got an extreme crush on him but I don’t think he likes me back 😦 I’m friends with his friends and we have the same classes! I’ve been trying to get closer to him for a while now but it’s not going great, he’s pretty closed off with girls which doesn’t help much :/ in classes we do have occasional eye contact in lessons and sometimes talk, when I’m in a not very nice mood or seem sad he does come over to see what’s up. But other times he acts like a total mean douche! I don’t get how or why he acts like that! I’m not sure how to get to the next level or get any closer to him, could you please help me with this?


The Advice:


Boys are a complex creature that changes it’s mind about 100 times in a minute. And when a boy shows you all of his sides, it’s usually because he likes you. Boys, just like girls, aren’t always sure how to show their feelings, or how to deal with them, so the fact that he has those sides is a good sign. If you want to get closer to him, I would suggest making more opportunity to spend time together. If you can, walk with him to and from class, engage him in conversation about his classes, and just try to create opportunity to get to know him better. The more time he spends with you, the more likely he is to show you how he feels. Hope this has helped!



Firstly, all guys are closed off to girls, its totally normal from them to be very distant from you. Even though guys do this, seeing a girl they like or are friends with sad does normally bring out the softer side in them.
Its a good thing that he isn’t mean to you when you look down, When he asks you if you are okay, take the opportunity to really tell him whats bothering you. Ask for his advice and that will spark convocation.
Also take the opportunity to go up to him and ask him whats up when he is alone. Normally guys act like douches around there friends to impress them.
If you really trust one of his guy friends, it might be worth while asking one of them to talk to him for you.
Hope I’ve Helped,            Elle xxx

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