Morgan and Ella,
When me and my boyfriend recently started dating we decided not to tell everyone, just 3 or 4 of our closest friends. now half the school know and i know i only told 3 people. did he back out on our promise? he acts like its my fault too.
You need to talk to your boyfriend. Part of a relationship is having open and honest communication. Talk to your boyfriend and ask him if he did tell anyone. Don’t use a threatening tone and let him know that you are just curious.
As for him blaming you, if you know you did nothing wrong don’t let it bother you. The fact that he is acting like you are to blame might mean he is the one who told, so by asking him that might be the best way to get it all out in the open and move forward in your relationship.
Part of being with someone is knowing you can trust them, so while going through this make sure you trust your boyfriend. Otherwise ask yourself if this is the kind of relationship you want to be in where you have to second guess his actions.
Hope I’ve helped!
I once had to hide a relationship from my school too. I am sorry that he is saying that but at the end of the day, if he is saying that really rude and nastily he isn’t someone you should be with anyway. On the other hand if you really like him, you need to sit down and talk it out with him, make sure HE knows how you feel, honesty is key in a relationship. You also mentioned that you and him told a few of your friends, when you talk with him both agree that you will talk to your friends that you have told and make sure that they haven’t told anyone.
Hope I helped,