Abby

The Question:

Dear Morgan and Ella,
So there is this guy I like at school and we have been texting for a few months now. I think we almost came close to telling each other how we feel, but I’m not sure. The thing is, I usually always text first but when we actually get into a conversation it’s always fun and flirty. Sometimes I think he likes me and other times I think he doesn’t. Some of my friends tell me that I should go for it and tell him how I feel, but I don’t want to lose the fun friendship that we have if he doesn’t like me back. We have two classes together this year but we never get to talk face to face that much. So my question is, does he like me and should I tell him how I feel?

The Advice:

Abby,

I think there is a strong chance that he could like you. And as I always tell people, tell him how you feel!!! I know it’s scary and all, but it’s going to make a world of difference. I understand the thought of possibly losing your friendship, but you could also open the door to a relationship. I think messaging him and creating a time to meet in person is a great idea, and in that time the two of you can discuss how you feel. Making it face to face is best. Tell him how you feel because it sounds like he definitely could like you back.

Morgan
Abby,
It sounds like you are getting a lot of mixed messages. And that’s completely normal!
Its always hard to tell if a guy like you but from what you are telling me, i think he does like you! you can never be sure, but from what you have told me about him being flirty and things like that, he probably likes you. As far as telling him you like him goes, if you feel confident to tell him… Girl go for it! Of you don’t know how to tell him, asking him if he is free on the weekend may be a good way to start. texting him and telling him you feelings isn’t always the best thing to do, as he could say one thing and feel another. going somewhere with him makes you see him in person, and here his tone of voice.
Hope I have helped,
Ella
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